You’ve been on a girls’ night out with your friends and got talking to someone who caught your eye. He approached you and started a conversation that had you feeling weak at the knees. He made eye contact, smiled a friendly smile, smelled great and looked even better! The conversation flowed effortlessly and before you knew it, he’d asked you for or your number. You happily exchanged digits and looked forward to his call.
Within a few hours he’d sent you a text to say how lovely it was to meet you. The next day, he phoned you. You had a great conversation about your day and you made plans to meet up at the weekend.
The next few days were spent in “la la” land. You couldn’t focus on anything else. Your work became uninteresting, you forgot to eat, you spent all your time thinking about this new person. You even fantasised about the honeymoon after your lavish wedding! When you spoke to your friends, guess who was the topic of conversation?
You’re smitten. You haven’t felt this great in ages! The weekend took ages to come around…
Finally the day arrived and you spent every moment focusing on what you’d wear, where you’d both go, how the date would turn out. You had already decided you wanted to be with this person, even though you barely knew him. You were on a date with someone you founnd incredibly attractive. Those eyes, you couldn’t stop staring into them. You felt swept away with the gorgeousness of this human being. Surely it’s a crime for someone to be this good looking? Your body responded to his voice, you felt such a strong sense of physical attraction and struggled to recall a time when you felt that good!!
It’s easy to think these feelings are real. It’s common to believe your strong sense of attraction signals this relationship is meant to be! All too often, singles fall into the trap of moving ahead quickly with someone they feel such a strong attraction only to discover that their initial feelings cast a shadow over the truth. This may not be the best match for you. It’s hard to discern when your feelings are so strong! It’s hard to distinguish between what is real and what is fantasy.
Take a breath and pause for a second. Ask yourself, “Do I have sufficient information to know this relationship would work?”
If you haven’t got enough information about this person and are unsure whether your relationship would work, then stop yourself from making one of the biggest mistakes of your life. Moving ahead quickly with someone you find incredibly attractive before you’ve even found out anything about them, may lead you down a path of heartbreak and destruction.
Take your time, get to know each other, find out if your requirements would be met. Ask questions, observe, discover the truth.
People spend more time choosing their car than they do the one thing that could significantly impact the rest of their life. Their relationships. Please don’t be one of those people.
Choosing your life partner isn’t something to rush into. Enjoy the process. Know what you want. Believe you deserve to have what you want and let the universe take care of the rest. While you’re dating, seek the help of a qualified professional to help you make conscious decisions for your life.
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